VMS Digest: Vol XIII

Yay links! For your weekend reading pleasure, a round up of articles, posts, random videos, and other things I’ve been saving for this edition of VMS Digest:


CREATE FOR YOURSELF FIRST // Definitely my favorite link of the week. This post was such a good reminder to create with no one in mind but yourself. The rest will happen naturally. (Subsequently, I’m interested in the author’s new book, An Audience of One)

I’M SO EXCITED FOR THIS MOVIE // Yes, yes, here’s your plug for Crazy Rich Asians. Joe and I are going on a dinner and movie date tonight to see it and I’m really looking forward to it! I’ve actually never read the book and had no idea what the story was about until seeing all the press for the movie. Have you read it? Assuming yes, because pretty sure millions of copies have been sold and I’ve been living under a rock. I enjoyed this analysis of what it’s like seeing the movie as an Asian American, and this piece on how the Asian American community is trying to ensure the movie has a “gold open.”

THE ESSENCE // Remember how I talked about Missha’s Time Revolution Essence back in this post? Well, a) it’s amazing and you should definitely get it, but b) you should also know that essences are the thing now. Here’s why.

I KID // Jess’s post about “The Kid Question” was real, raw, and totally spot on.

SPEAKING OF MOTHERHOOD // Did you catch this article about what motherhood is like these days? I’ll admit, this freaked me out a bit (and it sounds like it’s spot on). Do I sound like an old lady if I take this moment to lament: “What is this world coming to?”

COOK FREE OR DIE // To be honest, I have not been able to watch any episodes of Parts Unknown from the most recent Berlin episode on, because I was extremely impacted by the loss of Tony Bourdain. He was very much a part of my culture, from the moment I decided to go to culinary school back when I was a senior in college, through more recent years where he was on my mind as I traveled. Anyway, I’m curious about (and tentatively interested in?) this documentary CNN is apparently planning. If you’ve watched any of Bourdain’s stuff from No Reservations on, Zero Point Zero is the production company he always insisted on working with (i.e., they’ve made some seriously good work), so I’m hopeful the film will do him justice.

INFJ // So the last time I ever took a Myers-Brigs test was probably ten years ago. I kind of wonder if my personality type has changed since, but back then I was steadfastly an INFJ. Based on this fun article about what you need from your friends based on your type, I suspect I haven’t changed that much.

SPAGHETTI PHYSICS // This is a Joe contribution. He sent me this super nerdy article about how physicists have finally figured out how to break a handful of dried spaghetti into two clean pieces (Praise be! The world had been waiting!). You know how broken spaghetti normally shatters into a million pieces? Apparently “no one” knew why, so researchers decided to figure it out. Like I said: super nerdy. But totally your weekend small talk factoid. In other news, I have questions about why anyone is purposefully breaking long pasta into sections anyway.

LOVE FOR SEOUL // A friend from my Korea tour posted this really cool video that perfectly encapsulates Seoul. Even if you have no interest in going or knowing anything about Seoul, the painstaking effort to make this video (those edits! the cuts!) is really, really impressive and fun to watch. The director shared a behind the scenes discussion too — he shot 2TB of footage for this 7 minute video, which is crazy!

CURCUMIN // If you’re into DIY beauty like me, you should check out Grace’s recipe for a DIY turmeric and yogurt face mask! Her version is actually very similar to a recipe my facialist gave me early this year, so even the experts agree — yogurt masks are wonderful.

WHO TOLD YOU YOU HAVE TO LOOK GOOD? // A thought-provoking, powerful essay about the pressure to “look good” all the time. Maybe my second fave read of the week!


what i’ve been shopping

+ Requisite contributions to Everlane’s bottom line: I scooped up a couple more Air tees, and their new V-mule. For the Air tees, I love these because the material is SUPER soft, and they’re perfectly oversized and slouchy, making them great for a half-tuck with denim. The V-mule is everything—probably my favorite shoe from Everlane, ever. They’re just so simple yet chic yet modern and versatile. Two thumbs up!

+ Am I a newly minted K-beauty addict? But more importantly, how had no one ever told me about Soko Glam? I just received my first order of beauty goodies from this site focused only on Korean beauty products, and I’m excited to integrate and try everything. I used this mega Vitamin C serum last night for the first time; I’ve never seen a Vitamin C product with such a high dosage! The bottle also looks great on your bathroom counter ;) I also caved and am trying one of those snail essences everyone talks about. For the price point, why not?



Recent posts from around these parts:

+ Everything you’ve ever wanted to know about therapy

+ An artist I came across in Seoul, making classic blue and white ceramics but with a (literal) twist

+ Reflecting on my trip to Korea, one month after

+ Reviewing Everlane’s latest slingbacks

+ A little moodboard for August!


studio digest

+ Launched: Sydne Style, Chronicles of Frivolity, and with two big builds debuting in the next month or two. It’s been busy!

+ Over at <em>press, we’ve been posting regularly to our company blog, about all things, well…blogging! We’re also getting ready to launch media kit templates, if you’re into that kind of thing.


Wishing you a great weekend ahead!!


Photo by Amy Shamblen via Unsplash


  1. 9.16.18
    Victoria B said:

    I was not always sure I wanted kids. I liked the idea of them but I am not (and am still not) a baby person. I wouldn’t say I even like kids but I love my son. A lot of things about motherhood have surprised me. One of the most surprising things has been myself. I thought I would worry about so many things (germs, toy clutter, other mothers), but I have actually found the opposite. I have noticed a lot more peace in my life overall. I don’t care about colds, I don’t care about toys everywhere, and I don’t care what people think of me. So motherhood has mellowed me out and helped me become the woman I have always wanted to be. Just my two cents. I started the article you shared but I wasn’t relating to it in any way, so I couldn’t finish.

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